Building Rapport

Language-Change Index

Oxford University Press reports that the third edition of Garner’s Modern American Usage has a most interesting new feature: the Language-Change Index categorizes the level of acceptance of changes in adoption of new usages for words or phrases.

Five stages of language change

Stage 1 – rejected except by a minority of the language experts

Stage 2 – rejected by those who insist on “standard usage” but spreading fast

Stage 3 – used widely, even among the well-educated, but still avoided by the language mavens

Stage 4 – ubiquitous, meaning virtually universal, but still argued against by grammar police

Stage 5 – fully accepted by rational people

Evolving English

For another perspective on changing usage, we can turn to Robert Levy’s blog Save the Semicolon:

The Six Stages of Word Grief http://savethesemicolon.com/2010/05/11/the-six-stages-of-word-grief/
You will have to read his post for the explanations.

The Six Stages of Word Grief

1. Confusion

2. Amusement

3. Annoyance

4. Exasperation

5. Acceptance when OTHER people do it

6. Complete Acceptance or death

And, in “Very Unique” is Here to Stay, http://savethesemicolon.com/2007/07/29/unique-and-monique/

Robert says:

I think that there are at least two phases after a word becomes well-known, but before it becomes really standard.

The first is when people who care about these things (and even people who don’t, but who consider themselves educated) would never use it that way, and in fact, they sort of judge people who do use it. They roll eyes, or cringe a bit, or get annoyed when they hear role-models (like politicians) use it. They consider the usage a pet-peeve, or laughable.

The second is when the people who care about these things would still not use the word, but they accept that even educated, intelligent, well-read people do use it the new way. They start to feel curmudgeonly, or pedantic, if they insist that others avoid the new usage. They recognize that they’re on the way out.

So, for my call to action: Pick the stage with which you are comfortable, write there, and stop your belly-aching.

Looking back here, I noticed I misspelled a word. And then I decided that I am not going to correct it. I will try to avoid typos and spelling errors, but I will not look back. Spelling was free form until all those dictionary people and English teachers decided to bring it under control a couple of centuries back. I like looking at the old writing and seeing how many variations existed for the same word and yet one could figure out the word meaning intended.

In plain language work, we want to avoid making our readers work unnecessarily so spelling is important. But rigidity on things like grammar doesn’t always improve understanding.

Timothy Perrin, who wrote Better Writing for Lawyers said he had “one unbreakable rule”:

“Occasionally, a good writer breaks rules for an effect. That’s fine provided she knows what she is doing… So that is my only unbreakable rule. You can break any rule I tell you if *you know the rule*, you know you are breaking it and *you can give a good reason why.”